Therapy in Queens, NY

Stronger relationships.
Deeper connections.
Lasting change.

Couples and individual therapy that helps you break negative patterns, rebuild trust, and feel truly connected — with your partner and with yourself.

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“We are never as safe and strong as when we are sure we are loved.”
— SUE JOHNSON, FOUNDER OF EFT

Licensed LCSW-R · New York

EFT-informed couples therapy
Trauma-focused individual work
Accepting new clients

You’re not alone

Are you feeling stuck in your relationship or personal life?

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Struggling with communication and constant arguments

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Feeling disconnected — unsure if trust can be rebuilt

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Dealing with anxiety, low self-esteem, or past trauma

I help individuals and couples break negative patterns, rebuild trust, and create fulfilling, healthy relationships — whether that’s with a partner or within yourself.

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Loren Ecker, LCSW-R · Founder, Relationship Repair

You’re not alone

Choose the therapy that fits where you are.

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For partners

Couples Therapy

Rebuild trust, deepen intimacy, and change the patterns that keep you stuck. EFT-informed work for couples ready to reconnect.
  • Communication reset
  • Repair after betrayal
  • Intimacy & connection
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For you

Individual Therapy

Compassionate, trauma-informed therapy for anxiety, self-esteem, life transitions, and healing from the past to build for the future.

  • Anxiety & overwhelm
  • Complex trauma
  • Self-worth & growth
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What we help with

Real challenges. Real work. Real change.

Communication Issues

Communication Issues

Break cycles of arguments and shutdowns.

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Communication Issues

Rebuilding Trust

Repair after breaches, distance, or betrayal.

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Communication Issues

Anxiety

Quiet the worry that keeps you stuck.

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Communication Issues

Depression

Find your footing again, one step at a time.

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Communication Issues

Complex Trauma

Compassionate, evidence-based trauma work.

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Communication Issues

Life Transitions

Move through change with more clarity.

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Communication Issues

Self-Esteem

Return to yourself with steadier ground.

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Communication Issues

Intimacy & Connection

Rebuild closeness that lasts.

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The RLT approach

Relational Life Therapy — direct, compassionate, transformational.

RLT gets underneath the arguments to the patterns driving them. It’s honest, warm, and built to create real, lasting change — not just insight.

  • Name the pattern, not the person
  • Skills you can use tonight
  • Change that outlasts the session
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“Knowing that we can be loved exactly as we are gives us all the best opportunity for growing into the healthiest of people.”

— Fred Rogers

Specialty focus

Compassionate care for complex trauma.

Complex trauma shapes how we connect, trust, and see ourselves. This work is careful, paced, and built around your safety — helping you understand what happened and reclaim what’s yours.

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Trauma-informed · EMDR-adjacent · Parts work

In their words

Real change, in real relationships.

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“Loren is a true professional. He helped my wife and I see things we didn’t realize about how we communicate with each other. He has an amazing way of analyzing things and gives real strategies to help couples succeed. Marriage is difficult, but it doesn’t have to feel impossible — Loren makes you feel comfortable even in vulnerable moments.”
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★★★★★

“Loren is simply God sent. My husband and I didn’t think we could get through anything, but Loren showed us the way. He taught us how to communicate effectively and be functional adults with each other, and made us stronger than we’ve ever been. Patient, intuitive, and truly amazing — we would highly recommend Loren for any and all issues.”
Annie L

★★★★★

“Invaluable guidance. Loren is easy to talk to and an extremely active listener — he connects in a way that feels deeply personal. He shares effective materials, gathered from years of research and practice, that truly stick in memory. I was hesitant and didn’t believe in therapy, but I’m glad I visited him — he guided me through a plan at my own pace, without ever feeling overwhelmed, and helped me realize the good in me.”
Fahim Uddin

Ready to feel different in your relationships?

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