by lorenecker | Aug 7, 2024 | Blog
Why Do Couples Fight? Why is it that couples fight? And why is it so hard for some couples to resolve issues, see eye to eye, and live in peace and harmony with one another? One reason among many may be that a dynamic exists within the couple which Relational Life...
by lorenecker | Jul 8, 2024 | Blog
A COMMON PATTERN Jimmy and Jane sit on my couch looking for relationship help. She sits leaning away from him. A gap resides between them both physically and emotionally. She complains that Jimmy just doesn’t seem to care. He’s not there for her in the way that...
by lorenecker | May 20, 2024 | Blog, Couples, Marriage, Relationships
I get a lot of calls from partners, both men and women, looking for couples counseling, who recognize that they have trouble getting along with their significant other and they are at a loss as to how to fix the problem. Oftentimes, they report that it doesn’t...
by lorenecker | Apr 3, 2024 | Blog
Welcome to the culmination of our journey through the 5 Losing Strategies of Relational Life Therapy (RLT). Today, we confront the fifth and final losing strategy: ‘Withdrawal.’ Withdrawal is the silent killer that plagues relationships and often leads to...
by lorenecker | Mar 7, 2024 | Blog
Relationships, particularly our romantic relationships, can be a source of immense joy, connection, and comfort. Yet every couple faces challenges in the way they communicate, and certain reactions to those challenges—like retaliation—can create unnecessary...