by lorenecker | Mar 7, 2024 | Blog
Relationships, particularly our romantic relationships, can be a source of immense joy, connection, and comfort. Yet every couple faces challenges in the way they communicate, and certain reactions to those challenges—like retaliation in relationships—can create...
by lorenecker | Feb 18, 2024 | Blog
The Losing Strategy of Retaliation and Marriage Counseling in Queens NY The fourth of the Five Losing Strategies for Getting What You Want in Relational Life Therapy (RLT) is Retaliation. Lets try to understand why the losing strategy of retaliation often leads to...
by lorenecker | Feb 15, 2024 | Blog
If you’ve ever heard someone say, “I just needed to vent,” and then witnessed them unload in detail about their frustrations with no filters attached, you’ve likely experienced unbridled self expression in action. It might look authentic, but it often causes more harm...
by lorenecker | Jan 21, 2024 | Blog
Welcome back to our exploration of Relational Life Therapy’s (RLT) Five Losing Strategies of Getting What You Want. Today, we’re delving into the second losing strategy for getting what you want in our series – ‘Control.’ The need for control...
by lorenecker | Jan 14, 2024 | Blog
The Losing Game of “Being Right” in Relationships In the intricate dance of relationships, individuals often find themselves entangled in various strategies to get what they want. One of the most common, yet counterproductive approaches is the pursuit of...
