by lorenecker | Jul 8, 2024 | Blog
A COMMON PATTERN Jimmy and Jane sit on my couch looking for relationship help. She sits leaning away from him. A gap resides between them both physically and emotionally. She complains that Jimmy just doesn’t seem to care. He’s not there for her in the way that...
by lorenecker | May 20, 2024 | Blog, Couples, Marriage, Relationships
I get a lot of calls from partners, both men and women, looking for couples counseling, who recognize that they have trouble getting along with their significant other and they are at a loss as to how to fix the problem. Oftentimes, they report that it doesn’t...
by lorenecker | Apr 3, 2024 | Blog
Welcome to the culmination of our journey through the 5 Losing Strategies of Relational Life Therapy (RLT). Today, we confront the fifth and final losing strategy: ‘Withdrawal.’ Withdrawal is the silent killer that plagues relationships and often leads to...
by lorenecker | Mar 7, 2024 | Blog
Relationships, particularly our romantic relationships, can be a source of immense joy, connection, and comfort. Yet every couple faces challenges in the way they communicate, and certain reactions to those challenges—like retaliation—can create unnecessary...
by lorenecker | Feb 18, 2024 | Blog
The Losing Strategy of Retaliation and Marriage Counseling in Queens NY The fourth of the Five Losing Strategies for Getting What You Want in Relational Life Therapy (RLT) is Retaliation. Lets try to understand why the losing strategy of retaliation often leads to...
by lorenecker | Feb 15, 2024 | Blog
If you’ve ever heard someone say, “I just needed to vent,” and then witnessed them unload in detail about their frustrations with no filters attached, you’ve likely experienced unbridled self-expression in action. It might look authentic, but it often causes more harm...
